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by a Taken In Hand reader on 2005 Jul 10 - 21:03 | reply to this comment
Kim
Kim -

You are very pessimistic about us blokes. I suggest if you open your eyes you'll see there's a lot of wolves in wuss's clothing.

- Dan

by a Taken In Hand reader on 2005 Jul 11 - 11:44 | reply to this comment
Wonderful article
Sarah,

I think this is one of your best articles on the site. I've read it and re-read it, each time giving me different thoughts.

“But why does she want this? If she wants her man to lead, why doesn't she just follow him?”

I'm glad you answered this so well. Part of being taken in hand is following the man's lead and I can't imagine myself following someone I did not respect, at least in the narrow way I was following them. So it makes sense that my woman is the same and the more I require of her, the more it makes sense for her to be sure of my strong lead. I think it impossible to be totally sure under all future circumstances and at some stage, it takes faith in the person to willingly follow, even though they make errors at times.

...why bother?