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I am a lucky woman to have a man that is open to a Taken in Hand relationship. I feel very blessed so to speak. I know that so many people out there are looking for this same type of a relationship and what a hard thing it is to talk about. We feel like something is "wrong" with us, but I know that what I feel is not wrong, it is just part of who I am. This has been going on for centuries yet, society for the most part has dictated it as being wrong.

Thank you again and may your life always be fulfilled with your dreams! Have a wonderful day!

	
BDSM . . . kink with some psychological payoff
BDSM is kink with some psychological payoff. I think that BDSM is a process by which the partners are able to feed their basic human needs for value, love, acceptance, security, and adequacy (a sense of being capable). I experimented with BDSM scenes four times before finding Taken In Hand. The psychological aspects of BDSM were the allure and the reward.

When putting my physical safety into the hands of a dominant man, I was trusting that he would play out the scene in a way that kept me safe. By emerging from the scene in safety, I felt a surge in my own sense of security. I had experienced a new and risky situation safely. That reinforced my belief that I can be safe in the world in a variety of situations. BDSM play can involve pain; some of mine did. The ability to work through the rigors of pain and play my part in the scene reinforced to me that I am a capable woman.

When the scenes ended, I had experienced the acceptance of myself as a partner in play. I felt accepted as a woman because the dominant man had seen my body and it was desirable to him for our encounter. Similar to a date, there is something very affirming about being selected as a play partner. Before and during the scene, I felt special and important.