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That's interesting. But would you say from your experiences/observations that a black man with game can get more results than a white guy with game or is it just about equal?
I'm a black guy and what you said makes a lot of sense. I consider myself good looking and I'm educated but am only now developing my confidence. And while I'm nowhere near where I want to be I feel like things are opening up and improving for me rapidly, despite not running a ton of routines or using gambits but just by being confident and funny.

October 7, 2009 5:18:00 PM EST
Mr.M said...
Ah, I see. Do guys (people?) really use the race card as an excuse as to why they didn't get someone?

In any case, I just dislike a lot of racial sentiment because each race has its own pro/con stereotypes. (Asians: Smart but small, Blacks: Confident but thugs, Whites: Majority but pussies, etc). It really just boils down to the how the guy handles himself.

And I agree, confidence is the most important quality to have wrt game.

October 7, 2009 7:02:00 PM EST
Anonymous said...
Looking at the stats, Indian men seem to be doing the worst. Do you know the reason why?

October 7, 2009 11:12:00 PM EST
Assanova said...
W- thx, Ill check out the blog.

Anonymous- All things being equal, the black guy will have the advantage since he is rarer and more exotic. This is assuming that the guys are equally educated, confident, good-looking, and she doesn't care about the social pressure her friends & family might put on her not to date a black guy.

Mr. M- guys play it all the time. you'll have white guys saying that girls only like a certain guy because he's black. It happens all of the time with me.

On the other side, you'll see black guys trying to blame their lack of women on their own skin color instead of on their own lack of game.

That being said, assuming you're in a city, you will always be able to find women that are attracted to whatever skin color you happen to be.

October 8, 2009 2:27:00 PM EST