https://bit.ly/3JaD0It https://bit.ly/3GuGzI1 https://bit.ly/3Hx1M5g https://bit.ly/3GHFUTK https://bit.ly/3st3MVQ https://bit.ly/3rAyBsE https://bit.ly/34o5yj7 https://bit.ly/3JaD377 https://bit.ly/34vdQFM https://bit.ly/3uDRiNR Don't worry about the mistakes you've made or the ones that you will make, other than making the effort to learn from them. Do what you feel is natural for you. This looks like a new and beautiful beginning for you. KrosRogue A readers' forum post by KrosRogue on Thu, 06/01/2005 - 06:32 | reply to this comment Hang in there! A readers' forum post by Theo on Thu, 06/01/2005 - 16:38 | reply to this comment Tom, I sat up when I read your post a couple of minutes ago. I think you're the only man apart from me to have written on this site about his uncertainties concerning his own dominance, and his desire to strengthen it in the future. I had to reply immediately, just to encourage you – even though I have no experience or advice to offer. You're so lucky to have a wife who strongly and clearly desires to be taken in hand. And you've had a glorious taste of success in that way of life ... "It was absolutely exhilarating…." I envy you enormously. What you could do for two weeks, with such results, I'm sure you can keep up. And surely it can't really have anything to do with whether spanking is an option or not! I don't want to pry, but can you give any hint of what those stresses are that have messed things up for you? And will you be sharing what you've written here with your wife? Mr Nice Guy Tom is very evident throughout your post, but KrosRogue is right – the dominant Tom is also evident, struggling to get out. Best, Theo chas_dar-at-yahoo.co.uk A readers' forum post by Theo on Thu, 06/01/2005 - 16:38 | reply to this comment You are dominant, Tom A readers' forum post by Sarah Cavendish on Thu, 06/01/2005 - 19:28 | reply to this comment Tom, I agree with KrosRogue and Theo that the fact that you said: