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It's tough when you're ready to dive in, and they're dipping their toes in the water! It's tough to find that submissive place when you're having to guide them, and you know if you stop, they'll let you run over them.

But there is a light at the end of the tunnel. Even if, like me, you lose sight of it sometimes. And that is that he enjoys the role of head-of-house, though it maybe you that's doing the work to put him there right now.

With mine, it started with occasional glimpses of him feeling his dominance fully. Then those glimpses became more frequent. Now, years later, it's finally(big sigh) becoming a constant. It was hell for me at times, but we got here.

I've tried very hard to not seem like I'm trying to tell you how to handle your relationship. If it comes across that way, I apologize, that's not my intent. As I said in my previous post, I can totally relate to what you're going through. So I'm just hoping that by telling you about what we went through, and how we handled it, you'll find some relief from the frustration. A little reassurance that you can get there, no matter what path you take.

Try to keep your eye on the prize, even when the situation at hand is driving you nuts. Easier said than done sometimes, I know, but so worth it in the long-run.

by The_Beasts_girl on 2005 Nov 7 - 16:19 | reply to this comment
Some dominant men like to micro-manage
Some dominant me like to micromanage every aspect of their woman's life and all the woman can do is submit to all the demands of their man sweetly.

I do have problems with this technique in that acting 'as if' is in some ways denying 'what is'. If 'what is' is a source of dissatisfaction, then it's hard to act as though you're already receiving the benefits of whatever it is you want because acting that way would be incongruent with what you're feeling. From this point of view acting 'as if' is, in essence, acting, rather than being genuine.