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https://castbox.fm/episode/How-to-Know-You%E2%80%99re-With-the-Wrong-Guy--7-Signs-He%E2%80%99s-Not-Mr.-Right-For-Dating-or-Marriage-id4671896-id442839011
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https://www.zupyak.com/p/2033861/t/my-husband-may-be-the-father-of-another-womans-child
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https://www.zupyak.com/p/1427895/t/does-he-like-me-and-can-i-ask-him

Like I said, you came off as desperate and without a life of your own. That's where you screwed up. She only went out with you because she felt she had to and didn't want to hurt your feelings. Being a friend, and noticing how desperate you were, she probably felt sorry for you and went out with you to make herself feel better by not completely blowing you off.

Now she is hoping that you completely forget the night, hence why she is avoiding you. She's trying to send the message that she is not sexually interested in you, and she's trying to be nice about it by avoiding you.

I have no idea what to do, or even how to play this situation. My godfather said, that I should play it really cool, as if nothing ever happened. I know; I was obsessing greatly on her... but not in front of her.... Maybe the word spread in school that I liked her, but, if I ASKED HER to the movies, then isn't that saying, I LIKE YOU... in REALLY BIG fukin letters. I mean, I know its 1 girl out of many, but she is the one that I feel strongly about at this moment.


You should have played it cool from the very beginning. Like I said, you really screwed up with the movie times and going out of your way to make sure the date happens. When she said she had dinner on Friday night, she was testing you, and you failed by giving up power for her. The only reason she went out with you was because you tried to corner her into saying yes by making sure she would eventually be available.

I mean, this Monday is a new week.. I just want to know what to do.


Learn from the experience and leave her alone. We all go through this at some point in our lives, but trust me, there is nothing you can do to save this situation. You only get one chance to make a good first impression with women, and you failed with this particular girl.