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  11. I also love having my husband's name
  12. A readers' forum post by Otter on Wed, 01/06/2005 - 15:51 | reply to this comment
  13. I have always looked forward to being married and changing my name. When my husband and I got married we already had a daughter. We had given her his last name as I wanted to make sure that people knew she was his. (Of course, it backfired because then people who didn't know me when I was pregnant assumed I was the stepmom. Oh, well.) So there was no real question about whether or not I would take my husband's name. When I got married, I added my husband's last name and moved my maiden name to my middle name *along with* my given middle name, because I was named after an aunt whom I liked very much.
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  15. For me, I don't think I would feel completely joined with my husband if I hadn't taken his name. I know lots of families who all have different last names in various combinations but that just doesn't seem like a family to me. On the other hand, I definitely didn't want to give up my connection with my birth family. That is why I kept my maiden name as a middle name.
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  17. What made me want to reply was the poster that said that she would keep her maiden name if her husband had a name that sounded funny with her own or something along those lines. My maiden name sounded pretty good with my first name. My married name is Olga Oblad. Let's just say, this means that I hear even more often, "Wow, you don't look anything like I pictured. I was expecting a big blond viking woman." However, I hear it is a fairly common name in Sweden. =)
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  19. A readers' forum post by Otter on Wed, 01/06/2005 - 15:51 | reply to this comment
  20. Ms. vs. Mrs.
  21. A readers' forum post by a Taken In Hand reader on Wed, 01/06/2005 - 16:51 | reply to this comment
  22. Personally I don't care if I am called either one but I prefer Ms. I was a complete person before I met my husband and I am still a complete person. I was pleased to take his name but I feel the "Mrs." appellation defines me as an extension of him. I wouldn't insist and I wouldn't tell someone who called me Mrs. to call me Ms. instead but that's how I feel about it.
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  24. A readers' forum post by a Taken In Hand reader on Wed, 01/06/2005 - 16:51 | reply to this comment
  25. Interesting
  26. A readers' forum post by Anna Maria on Wed, 01/06/2005 - 17:03 | reply to this comment
  27. In Czech Republic, we rarely use the hyphoned double names, it´s fairly recent custom. It is common to pick your husband´s name (so common that your friends and everybody titles you Mrs XY on the wedding card, because they just expect it.)
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  29. However, celebrities usually keep their names for obvious reasons and so do women who have it as a trademark (but that´s not so common, you know).
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