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  12. C’mon, Susan. If I guy contacts a girl for three weeks he likes her, let alone three years. You really were off your usually stellar game on that post. I’ve been that guy if you/she really want to know what is going on there I can fill you in blow-by-blow*.
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  14. He been giving her repeated opportunities to show that she’s a grown woman (as a good man, he’s not going to escalate with her before she demonstrates this – among many reasons, this will keep her count down) who can take the initiative in her own life (in this case, by showing some emotional investment, as she put it).
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  16. If a man suggests a date and you don’t like the suggestion, if you’re interested, a grown woman suggests an alternative. That she doesn’t shows that she either not yet a grown woman, or playing him. Either way, not escalating. She does evidently show enough potential value to keep giving her opportunities, but she keeps showing that she’s not there yet.
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  18. BTW, this has long been standard operating procedure for for how good men find their mates, and I’m assuming almost all women understood it (certainly all the women in my large extended family do). That so many women now misinterpret this as some sort of social ineptitute is an answer to the question of where the good men have gone. Until I stumbled on blogs like yours’ I couldn’t believe that women could have forgotten so much.
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  24. 59Desiderius October 7, 2011 at 8:43 am
  25. * – for instance, joking about his age, given his high status and otherwise high social skills means, “I’m aware of the ‘creepy’ game younger women play with (especially high value) older men. You’ll need to give me a little more than usual IOI’s in exchange for me risking falling for that game/dealing with other people who think I’m violating social norms. I can’t afford to be a total bull in that china shop.”
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  27. Self-deprecation from an otherwise high-confidence, high-value man is a huge IOI for LTR. That’s why players will throw some in after building alpha attraction, to mimic what the good man does and get around the anti-player shield. The good man will do it before, to signal interest in LTR over casual sex.
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  33. 60Susan Walsh October 7, 2011 at 9:16 am
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