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Dominant:

1

 

a: commanding, controlling, or prevailing over all others

 

b: very important, powerful, or successful

 

2

 

: overlooking and commanding from a superior position “

 

None of the above. No thanks!

 

Assertive:

1

 

: disposed to or characterized by bold or confident statements and behavior;

2

 

: having a strong or distinctive flavor or aroma

 

Much better!

 

I like men who know what they’re doing and are assertive about it. Just like I can be assertive about things I feel strongly about. However, I do not accept the authority of any men just because they are men. I had to living in my father’s home, however there was a difference since he’s the reason I’m here in the first place. And even then, such authority diminishes as children are able to support themselves.

If I have to rely on the definition of dominant above mentionned, I’m probably dominant myself in many aspects, over women and men; this is why I do not really subscribe to the postulate that women have to leave space for men to be dominant. Male assertiveness or lack thereof is the main issue to me. There is probably not many spaces for them to express their uniqueness, which should be remedied. If however, this is about women leaving all decisions to men for the sake of dominance, count me out of such equation.

 

147Susan Walsh November 9, 2012 at 11:55 am

@Ramble

 

You had referenced how well the “least attractive” girls at your sorority did. I was curious how the unattractive did.

 

I didn’t answer your question directly because I have no data. We didn’t actually have any unattractive girls in our sorority. :)