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- I am a lucky woman to have a man that is open to a Taken in Hand relationship. I feel very blessed so to speak. I know that so many people out there are looking for this same type of a relationship and what a hard thing it is to talk about. We feel like something is "wrong" with us, but I know that what I feel is not wrong, it is just part of who I am. This has been going on for centuries yet, society for the most part has dictated it as being wrong.
- Thank you again and may your life always be fulfilled with your dreams! Have a wonderful day!
- BDSM . . . kink with some psychological payoff
- BDSM is kink with some psychological payoff. I think that BDSM is a process by which the partners are able to feed their basic human needs for value, love, acceptance, security, and adequacy (a sense of being capable). I experimented with BDSM scenes four times before finding Taken In Hand. The psychological aspects of BDSM were the allure and the reward.
- When putting my physical safety into the hands of a dominant man, I was trusting that he would play out the scene in a way that kept me safe. By emerging from the scene in safety, I felt a surge in my own sense of security. I had experienced a new and risky situation safely. That reinforced my belief that I can be safe in the world in a variety of situations. BDSM play can involve pain; some of mine did. The ability to work through the rigors of pain and play my part in the scene reinforced to me that I am a capable woman.
- When the scenes ended, I had experienced the acceptance of myself as a partner in play. I felt accepted as a woman because the dominant man had seen my body and it was desirable to him for our encounter. Similar to a date, there is something very affirming about being selected as a play partner. Before and during the scene, I felt special and important.