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 - That's interesting. But would you say from your experiences/observations that a black man with game can get more results than a white guy with game or is it just about equal?
 - I'm a black guy and what you said makes a lot of sense. I consider myself good looking and I'm educated but am only now developing my confidence. And while I'm nowhere near where I want to be I feel like things are opening up and improving for me rapidly, despite not running a ton of routines or using gambits but just by being confident and funny.
 - October 7, 2009 5:18:00 PM EST
 - Mr.M said...
 - Ah, I see. Do guys (people?) really use the race card as an excuse as to why they didn't get someone?
 - In any case, I just dislike a lot of racial sentiment because each race has its own pro/con stereotypes. (Asians: Smart but small, Blacks: Confident but thugs, Whites: Majority but pussies, etc). It really just boils down to the how the guy handles himself.
 - And I agree, confidence is the most important quality to have wrt game.
 - October 7, 2009 7:02:00 PM EST
 - Anonymous said...
 - Looking at the stats, Indian men seem to be doing the worst. Do you know the reason why?
 - October 7, 2009 11:12:00 PM EST
 - Assanova said...
 - W- thx, Ill check out the blog.
 - Anonymous- All things being equal, the black guy will have the advantage since he is rarer and more exotic. This is assuming that the guys are equally educated, confident, good-looking, and she doesn't care about the social pressure her friends & family might put on her not to date a black guy.
 - Mr. M- guys play it all the time. you'll have white guys saying that girls only like a certain guy because he's black. It happens all of the time with me.
 - On the other side, you'll see black guys trying to blame their lack of women on their own skin color instead of on their own lack of game.
 - That being said, assuming you're in a city, you will always be able to find women that are attracted to whatever skin color you happen to be.
 - October 8, 2009 2:27:00 PM EST